Abuse in relationships isn’t always easy to spot, but recognizing it is the first step towards setting boundaries and eventual healing.
Am I afraid to disagree with my partner?
Do I often apologize to others for my partner’s behavior?
Do I sometimes feel as if I have to make up excuses and justify my behavior to avoid my partner’s anger?
Am I verbally degraded by my partner?
Am I unable to see my friends or family due to my partner’s jealousy or control over me?
Have I ever been forced by my partner to engage in sexual acts against my will?
If you answered mostly ‘yes’ to these statements, consider the possibility that you are in an abusive relationship. Find a trusted support system – this can be a professional counselor, family, or friends.
Sharing your experiences is key to evaluating your next steps in this relationships.